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By Donald  L. Tilford
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consider moving to one of the cities listed below if you are having a hard time finding
Mr. Right.  Today’s women are extra busy going to school, working full-time, and trying
special can be hard if not impossible if you find that there are to many women in your
city competing with you.  Now there is a simple way to strategically alter and reverse
this once negative factor in your favor.  To overcome this problem all you need to do is
to simply move to a city that is loaded with single available men.

Men Marry Younger When Competing for Women

To get to the women earlier, many men will marry younger in cities that have a
shortage of available women to marry.  Men will also marry earlier so they can snatch
up a woman before she is taken and proposed to.  Men seem to also work harder at
work and are better off financially and strive to build their social status up more since
they feel they have to prove themselves to this larger pool of women.  Women on the
other hand can be more relaxed and will not have to work as hard as men in trying to
get the attention of available suitors.

Try A New University or Collage

If you find that moving to a distant city is out of the question, then you may want to
consider attending a university or college that has an abundance of single young men.
Some universities have two or even three times as many men as there is women.  
Finding a college or university in your area may be the answer to finding that perfect
someone.  Attending a university with an abundance of male students will put you at a
great advantage and you’ll also receive greater attention from men since the available
women will be limited in your area.  In a university like this, the sad fact is that some
men simply will not be able to find a suitable dating partner to grow close to.  The
demographics simply are not in their favor and they will just have to wait until after
graduation to locate a suitable partner.

Long Distance Relationships

If you’re a man or woman and find yourself at a disadvantage from the low number of
men or women available in your area, then you may want to consider going online and
attempt a long distance relationship with an online dating service.  Many are free and
you will have thousands of men and women to pick from.  The problem with long
distance relationships is the fact that some may not work because of the distance
issue.  On the other side, there are millions of successful online relationships that do
work and that do eventually lead to marriage.  This is simply an option to consider if
you find your pool of men or women in scarce supply.    

Military Bases

You may be in luck if there is a military base in your city or town.  The military is mainly
a large group of men so with this in mind military bases will also be loaded with
available single men.  In the movie An Officer and a Gentleman, a simple factory girl
works and eventually wins over the man she loves and latter becomes the wife of this
man who is an aviator.  Women in her town also had problems finding men, so she
went to the base where she turned the odds in her favor.  A woman needs to simply
think outside of the box and can do simple respectable things to get noticed.  After all,
half the fun is in the chase!

Stay Away From Night Clubs

A word of caution goes out to all the ladies reading this.  Please stay as far away from
nightclubs as you can.  You will get nothing but trouble and headaches from behind the
doors of nightclubs.  Many women go missing after visiting nightclubs every year so
don’t become one of them.  Instead look in your house of worship, local university or
club instead.  The best idea would be to find a nice gentleman that has the same
interest and values as you.  Your relationship will grow and become rock solid if you
can do this and find someone with values, morals, and one who truly loves and enjoys
family.  Place God all the front of your relationship as well.  Doing this binds the
relationship with ever lasting love and power.  Of all the things a couple can do,
nothing is more important than your love for one another through Christ.  If you can do
this, you will become one of the happiest people in the world!     

List of Top Cities That Have Loads and Loads of Men

These are the cities that are raining men.  If you can land a residency in one of these
exciting cities, you have half your work already done for you.  Just remember, before
you move, take a trip to the city, scout things out a little, and check on the crime rate
and general condition of the area you are looking at.  If you can find a good home or
apartment, a good job, and an area you can call home, then you may find yourself in
the middle of paradise.  Your whole life can change overnight so hold on to your hat
and get ready for the time of your life!

Listed below are the top 14 cities ranked in order for single women.  All have been
ranked in part by women to men ratio with population, job availability, unemployment
rate, and cost of living.    

1.) Birmingham, AL
2.) Memphis, TN
3.) New Orleans
4.) Richmond, VA
5.) New York City
6.) Philadelphia
7.) Washington D.C.
8.) Chicago
9.) Boston
10.) Phoenix
11.) Minneapolis
12.) Pittsburgh
13.) Dallas
14.) Austin

This is a composite of information from Super Singles data, (A national company about
singles and the single life that has been owned by the author Donald Tilford for over 32

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